Monday, July 20, 2009

Wedding Day Regrets

Photobucket (Isn't Kacey gorgeous?!)After our fun little pre-Bridal session with Emily the other night, Kacey and I got to talking about our wedding day and things that we wished we would have done differently. Oh my goodness. Can I just say "Can I please get a do-over?!" I regret so many things that I just didn't do that day! I wish I would have gotten MORE pictures taken (and way more FUN ones... dang hubby just wasn't willing), I wish I would have put more of my personality into my dress and accessories, I wish I would have worn some awesome colored shoes of some sort (heels, tennis shoes, converse etc.), I wish I wouldn't have worried about everyone else so much (it was MY day (oh... and Josh's too ;)) I wish I would have done a trash the dress session, I wish Josh and I would have gone into the city and gotten some fun/artistic pictures taken... I wish, I wish, I wish... the list could go on and on. Don't get me wrong, aside from having my children, my wedding day was the BEST day of my life. I loved it. Truly, I did. I just wish I would have taken more time to consider putting more of my (and my man's) personality into it. I wish I would have taken more time.

No matter who you are, I hope and pray that you don't ever (and I mean EVER) regret not doing something on your wedding day! And I'm not talking about all those ladies who got married back in the 80's and wish they would have NOT worn their hair the way they did. I mean, come on ladies... that was the style back then, right?! ;) (Boy, am I glad I didn't get married in the 80's {shutter}) HAHAHA. I'm totally teasing... maybe.

I'm talking about those couples who don't take time for pictures, or don't add any of their personality into their photos, attire or reception. Your wedding day is for you and your future spouse. And that's it. No one else. Sure, you have your guests... but they are there for YOU guys. It's YOUR day. Make the best of it, make no mistakes, and have NO regrets. This day only comes ONCE in a lifetime, and it HAS to be perfect. If you really want to do it, or wear it... just go for it. I promise, you won't be sorry!

1 comment:

grammaDawn said...

Don't get me started on regrets. I got a millions of 'um...so don't even go there with me. Think 20 years later is too late for doevers?